Village President’s column: Choose understanding first

Posted 2/11/26

Last week I came across a quote that stuck with me:

“One of the strongest signs of intelligence is the ability to consider another person’s perspective without becoming defensive. Curiosity …

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Village President’s column: Choose understanding first

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Last week I came across a quote that stuck with me:

“One of the strongest signs of intelligence is the ability to consider another person’s perspective without becoming defensive. Curiosity reveals a sharp mind. It shows who is committed to understanding rather than winning.”

That idea feels especially relevant as conversations have become more energized than expected while Ellsworth moves forward with several long-planned projects, including the East End Street and Infrastructure Project and the development of our East End Park Master Plan.

These initiatives are not sudden or unexpected. They are the result of years of planning, community input, and thoughtful discussion. They exist because residents, staff, and the Village Board have worked intentionally to identify needs, set priorities, and prepare for the future.

Because of that, it is disappointing when conversations about these efforts become driven by rumor, assumptions, or incomplete information instead of facts.

As Village President, I take my responsibility to make smart decisions for both today and the future very seriously. Over the past six years, I have invested significant time in education, research, and planning so that the decisions we make are informed and intentional. That does not mean every idea will ultimately be the right fit for Ellsworth, but it does mean that the ideas being discussed have been thoughtfully considered.

Yes, questions and concerns are acceptable and necessary. What is not productive is forming strong conclusions without first seeking accurate information or engaging directly with those involved.

I have been told there has been significant recent discussion online surrounding East End Park. I genuinely appreciate that so many residents care deeply about that space. But passion must be paired with a commitment to understanding, not speculation.

Healthy communities cannot thrive in an environment of rumor or personal attacks. At times, the disrespectful tone of recent discussions has even carried into public meetings, where respectful, fact-based dialogue should always be the standard. Our community is strongest when people ask questions, listen to one another, and engage respectfully, even when opinions differ.

Before sharing secondhand information or assuming someone’s intentions, take the time to ask questions and seek the full picture. Our community deserves decisions and discussions grounded in facts, not frustration.

As we continue planning for Ellsworth’s future, I am committed to transparency, preparation, and open dialogue. I also believe we all share responsibility for maintaining a community culture that encourages respectful engagement rather than division.

If you have questions, concerns, or ideas, I encourage you to reach out directly. I welcome the opportunity to provide context and have productive conversations. You can contact me at becky@villageofellsworth.org.

Village President column, Becky Beissel, East End Street and Infrastructure Project, East End Master Park Plan, rumors, assumptions, Ellsworth, Wisconsin